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My Youtube Play LIST of EMO SONGS

Thanks Gyroe.

My Thoughts for today:
There's Love all around us.. just relax, listen, observe, you don't have to force anyone to love you, you don't to convince or manipulate anyone to love you, natural instincts are usually correct in my world. My intuition has never failed me.

Love will come naturally and easy to those who find their own passions and love in their own creative hearts and souls. I've been blessed to be loved by incredible friends, and family, and to also be in love more than one time.

I believe there is true love. True love can also be fleeting and can change... But nevertheless when it happens I know it.. Some times it can be dangerous to think with the heart, but if you haven't let yourself go with the flow, then you man never experience love.

It feels good to be secure with myself, loving myself, and not jumping in to another relationship. Now I feel so much more free, no drama, no one anchoring me down.. every day I live, i am reminded that I made the right choice! Dancing, Friends, everything to push me to achieve my dreams and goals...Inspiration from talented people around me. Everyone who knows me knows the truth:) thanks to all the friends who have supported and who love me.

Its healthy to move on and be productive. Concentrating on your craft your goals and aspirations....

A healthy relationship means support and uplifting each other...

Not anchoring you down or holding you. Back

signs and numbers mean nothing anymore
Yet syncronicity is everything...

15 it's written in the stars the moon and inevitable chemistry

14 go with the flow is all i know
Until you get burned you won't want it any more.

13 cross the line and can't go back. from the beginning is the truth.

12 inebriated humor is unattractive. but weekend warriors were good until you become afraid of the truth. click!

11 Innocent, Youth and good talks get you somewhere. cleared the way for a circle

10 I am re awoken to the bound of fun. Coerced vulnerability. Never create awkwardness in a passionate activity.

9 when you think it's infinity but realize it could be infinity of psychosis

8 Not admiting or establishing creates a wavering situation. Don't ever do it for pity, resist temptation of being a massage whore

7 slacking gets you no where. Don't let some one tell you to get OFF your high horse! And never buy cigarrettes

6 When it's Good on paper don't be fooled. Overbearing smothering is not the way to keep. Especially if parents shouldn't be involved. suffocation. never be jealous of your girls gay friends.
5 stoner, coerced and quick to the water
4 was too young and pushed ahead
3 too weird and corney and fleeting. awkward and inexperience gets you now where. metro sexuality.
2 hot to the asian girls. cockiness makes you look bad. a fight over a parking space.
1 one love the first time for everything . experience goes a long way.

fake?
where to go?

Healthy vs. Unhealthy Love:



Here is a short list of the characteristics of Love vs. toxic love (compiled with the help of the work of Melody Beattie, Terence Gorski. and Robert Burney.)


Healthy -------------------------------------- Unhealthy

Love: Development of self first priority.	Toxic love: Obsession with relationship.
Love: Room to grow, expand; desire for other to grow.	Toxic love: Security, comfort in sameness; intensity of need seen as proof of love - may really be fear, insecurity, loneliness.
Love: Separate interests; other friends; maintain other meaningful relationships.	Toxic love: Total involvement; limited social life; neglect old friends, interests.
Love: Encouragement of each other's expanding; secure in own worth.	Toxic love: Preoccupation with other's behavior; fear of other changing.
Love: Appropriate Trust (trusting partner to behave according to fundamental nature.)	Toxic love: Jealousy; possessiveness; fear of competition; protects "supply."
Love: Compromise, negotiation or taking turns at leading. Problem solving together.	Toxic love: Power plays for control; blaming; passive or aggressive manipulation.
Love: Embracing of each other's individuality.	Toxic love: Trying to change other to own image.
Love: Relationship deals with all aspects of reality.	Toxic love: Relationship is based on delusion and avoidance of the unpleasant.
Love: Self-care by both partners; emotional state not dependent on other's mood.	Toxic love: Expectation that one partner will fix and rescue the other.
Love: Loving detachment (healthy concern about partner, while letting go.)	Toxic love: Fusion (being obsessed with each other's problems and feelings.)
Love: Sex is free choice growing out of caring & friendship.	Toxic love: Pressure around sex due to fear, insecurity & need for immediate gratification.
Love: Ability to enjoy solitude by being alone.	Toxic love: Unable to endure separation; clinging.
Love: Cycle of comfort and contentment.	Toxic love: Cycle of pain and despair.
Love: Conversations based upon intent to Understand, Help, or convey affection.	Toxic love: Conversations based upon intent to blame, defend, or manipulate.

Love is not supposed to be painful. There is pain involved in any relationship but if it is painful most of the time then something is not working. Loving relationships are based upon appreciation & affection and not fear and manipulation.

"All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy."
 
- Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, is a best-selling author and motivational speaker. TDL loves Wayne!